Friday 22 January 2010

Love in your couple ?



Love and marriage : are they compatible ?




If we were in love before marriage, is it possible to continue to love the same way after ? And if love is established after marriage, would it have the same taste, same value or not?

Many people believe that the beautiful feelings of love extinguish after marriage, or even disappear. And many are who believe that Love when born after the marriage is more likely to last as long as we know how to maintain it. The issue is not to try to love before engagement or after, but rather how to establish a relationship in harmony with a true Love that lasts for life.

If you want to know how to create and maintain love in your marriage, here are some clues that may seem too simple or even absurd, but they are at the heart of a successful relationship. You can then judge for yourself if you live actually in love or not and why.


You communicate your needs and your desires to your partner in all respect.

You are careful to build your relationship and work it day after day.


You understand that the desires and needs of your partner are as important as yours.

You try to approach the truth of your partner by getting rid of your illusions and your projections.

You realize that your relationship has a hidden purpose: to heal the wounds of childhood both in opening towards each other.

You learn to recognize and overcome your dark side so as not to project onto your partner.


You're ready to love unconditionally and with confidence.



You know that to love truely is difficult, but you accept it.


Now that you know, you can measure love in your couple life : is it there? Will it last? Good luck ..


According to le Couple, mode d'emploi, of Hendrix